During the Brexit Referendum (and since) opinions in the UK divided into two main camps: Leavers and Remainers. The whole Harry/Meghan/Royal family saga has split us three ways into three broad based camps: pro-Harry and Meghan, anti- Harry and Meghan and those of us who are sick to death of the whole matter and wish it would end.
With reservations, I align with the latter body of opinion. To me, it is little more than yet another welcome distraction for the Conservative government, who must be delighted at seeing us argue about the merits and demerits of a wealthy family washing their dirty linen in public - and the world's public at that. Such acrimony deflects attention from government handling of the economy and so much else. My only reservations lie in the fact that Harry has not thought out the full consequences of his recent book publication for himself and others. However, while I refuse to take sides in what should be a private affair between families, the fact that the right-wing tabloids have declared themselves so openly against Harry and his wife does inspire some sympathy in me for the royal couple. Anyone that the Daily Mail vilifies in over ten pages in one issue can't be all bad. There is nothing new about this antipathy. It dates back to the tabloid fury over the interview the couple gave to Oprah Winfrey back in 2021. As James O'Brien has said on LBC several times, this is the same press that lied about Brexit, defended Boris Johnson and vilified asylum seekers.
All well and good, and, as all of us who watched the Tom Bradby interview with Harry on ITV know, the prince makes repeated attacks upon the British press for their negative reporting of his wife. Some of these attacks, such as that made by Jeremy Clarkson, are exercises in vileness and I don't blame Harry for being angry about that. Having said that, I believe that he deserves criticism for a number of things he said, without (apparently) thinking of the consequences.
For someone who considers himself to be a victim of a hostile press, he has placed his neck squarely between their eager jaws. The very fact that Harry is seen to be betraying his family by revealing so many deeply personal secrets has made him an easy and, I think, justifiable to some extent, target for attack. And the tabloids have seized upon this move by Harry with a relish:
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ing Charles pleaded with his warring sons William and Harry not to make his 'final years a misery' at meeting following death of Prince Philip; Harry called his therapist before his wife Meghan after being 'knocked to the floor' by his brother;Duke of Sussex claims William and Kate told him to wear a Nazi uniform to a fancy dress party; Princes Harry and William refer to each other as 'Willy' and 'Harold';King Charles allegedly told Harry's mother Princess Diana on the day that he was born: 'Wonderful! Now you've given me an heir and a spare – my work is done".
All this is a family matter, but the most serious consequences could flow from Harry's claim that he killed 25 Taliban during his service in Afghanistan. I was initially surprised at how Harry could be so precise about the numbers he killed, but,
as The Guardian says:
"Harry writes that “in the era of Apaches and laptops” it was possible to establish “with exactness how many enemy combatants I had killed. And it seemed to me essential not to be afraid of that number. So my number is 25. It’s not a number that fills me with satisfaction, but nor does it embarrass me.”This revelation drew condemnation from a wide variety of people - from senior military and ex-military figures in the UK to the Taliban themselves. The Guardian again:
"The retired army veteran Col Tim Collins, best known for delivering a rousing speech before the start of the Iraq war in 2003, said the prince’s kill-count talk was crass and “we don’t do notches on the rifle butt”.According to Sky News, a Taliban spokesperson said:
"Responding to revelations in Harry's new memoir that he killed 25 Taliban fighters, Anas Haqqani, a senior aide to the interior minister, tweeted: "Mr Harry! The ones you killed were not chess pieces, they were humans; they had families who were waiting for their return." Now, of course, the Taliban's condemning Harry for what they claim elsewhere as a war crime, is rather like having a major bank robber condemn a man or woman for shoplifting. But they do have a point, even if it is rather blunt and ineffectual - not to mention disgustingly hypocritical.
Now, as we know, Harry has been most put out by the accusations of boasting made against him on this issue. As
the BBC says:
"The prince has been criticised for discussing killings in Spare, with some military figures saying it was wrong to refer to the dead as "chess pieces". But on US TV, Harry accused the press of taking his words out of context and said the spin endangered his family."
I am trying to be charitable here, but I marvel at Harry's apparent surprise. I find it very difficult to believe that the Prince and his advisers were unable to foresee the reaction that has ensued. By his claim in the book, boasting or not, he has not only endangered his and his family's safety, but also just about any major (or minor) military personality who fought in Afghanistan. Kevin Maguire, associate editor of the Daily Mirror, posted this image on Twitter:
Maguire thought this in slightly bad taste, but I'm not too sure. The Taliban will studiously avoid sending their own operatives on a revenge mission - but that won't stop their sympathisers.
So, what's the prime motivation behind Harry's actions? Well, the respected writer, Yasmine Alibhai Brown has said that she sees Harry as a "hurt little boy", and, indeed, while watching the Tom Bradby interview on ITV, there did seem something childlike about the candour of Harry - or was it the outpourings of a patient to his therapist? There is, I believe, another prime motivation.
"In figures released by the book's publisher, Penguin Random House, it was revealed that the memoir had broken their personal record largest first-day sales total for any nonfiction book in its history, with nearly one and a half million copies being shifted across the United Kingdom, United States and Canada".Cash registers are singing, not ringing, and as The Standard says:
"The book is part of a three-title deal worth £36.8 million, and the Duke was reportedly paid an £18.4m advance for the three books. Penguin Random House did not disclose financial terms but noted that Harry will be donating his profits to charity – though it’s not been confirmed whether this includes his sizable advance, and is believed to relate to royalties".The Book of Ecclesiastes
in the Old Testament, 10:19 says that
"money answereth all things" and it is not difficult to discern another motive for this book's having been written.
Whether we discern monetary motives or not, there are two final unforeseen consequences that could well flow from Harry's decision to reveal so much of his family's trauma.
The first is the fact that this matter has, for the very first time to my knowledge, led to the anti-monarchist pressure group, Republic being quoted in the national media. In fact, the group sees Harry as a possible anti-monarchist campaigner.
As they say on their website:
"Campaigners have today called on Prince Harry to step up and call for the abolition of the monarchy, following comments he made about the damaging impact of growing up as a royal.
Graham Smith, speaking for the group Republic, said today:
"Harry is clearly not interested in the royal life, and wants a better upbringing for his children than the one he was given by Charles."
"When he quotes Meghan saying 'You don’t need to be a princess, you can create the life that will be better than any princess', that's a democratic, republican sentiment. That's a call to bring the monarchy to a close."The second, and final, consequence lies in what may happen to the Royal children, be they of Wills and Kate, or Harry and Meghan. Both sets of children, be they in London or California, will have to grow up with the fallout of these revelations. They could (very) well become targets of insults and abuse. They may go to the most exclusive schools, but their lives could be made a misery. Rich kids can be every bit as nasty as their poorer contemporaries.
Now, why did no-one think of that?
The royal family being dysfunctional is nothing new - as a former history teacher, I could quote many examples from the last millennium, and quite a few from the last century alone, What is new is the intense media coverage of intimate details of royal life. Hitherto, most royal bust-ups have been behind closed doors, and the fact that this one isn't is, I feel, is intensely damaging to the esteem in which the royal family is widely held, which is a good thing because people might just begin to realise that they are no different from the rest of us in any way: they're not more intelligent, they lack integrity and they're capable of extreme selfishness. Why then should this failing family continue to provide the head of state of our country as it has done for more than a thousand years when it becoming more and more obvious that it really is not qualified to do so?
ReplyDeleteAs far as I can see, the late queen behaved with integrity throughout her reign, but her family have singularly failed to live up to the example she set. To give a few examples: Charles having an affair throughout the whole of his first marriage; accusations against Andrew of sexual offences and his collusion with convicted serial sex offender Jeffrey Epstein; all these current revelations by Harry of family splits, discord, alleged media spinning against him and Meghan; and even princely punch-ups.
My opinion is that the royal family is now irredeemably tarnished and is increasingly proving it does not deserve the status to which it believes it is entitled, and that it is entirely unfit for the role it is supposed to fulfil.
Having said all that, I don't expect I'll see the monarchy abolished - although one can live in hope, I suppose!